DEALING
WITH DEPRESSION
Everyone goes through emotional ups and downs.
It is normal to feel happy or low for no readily apparent
reason. However, it is less common for moods to swing frequently
and rapidly between high and low or to reach lows and stay
there for a long time.
Having the blues or being down in the dumps
once in a while is probably nothing to be concerned about.
But depression, especially in its more severe forms, needs
to be examined. Depressive illness can have a disturbing and
disruptive effect on one’s life. Frequent and long states
of depression can affect one’s health, erode a marriage
and undermine job performance.
It is possible to drift from feelings of sadness
or low spirits into a state of depression without realizing
it. Although the symptoms are not always clear, depression
shows up in several ways. Here are some warning signs:
• Periods of low mood that won’t
go away.
• Loss of interest in most things job, family life,
hobbies.
• No appetite or excessive appetite
• Low self image
• Unusual nervousness or irritability
• Frequent crying spells
• Change in sleeping patterns
Since these symptoms can also show up with
bodily ailments, a developing depressive illness may not be
diagnosed right away. Unfortunately, the depressed state may
then linger until a crisis of some sort arises.
What
causes it?
Most depressions are caused by psychological
and biological factors. Some people can point to an event
or events in their lives that “started” the depression.
Divorce, the death of a loved one and severe trauma are common
triggers. Sometimes people feel extreme shame or guilt because
of what’s happened.
Depression often affects those who have unrealistic
expectations of themselves or their families. Labeling one-self
a failure or a bad person for not meeting a self-imposed standard
can turn the normal low days of one’s emotional cycle
into the start of a depressive illness.
What
can be done?
Fortunately psychiatrists and psychotherapists
can diagnose depression and guide their clients to recovery
from depressive illness.
If you recognize the warning signs of depression
in yourself or in someone you care about and if the symptoms
persist for several weeks with no sign of improvement, it
is time to seek help. Sources of support include your doctor,
employee assistance program, informed friends, family members,
local crisis line, mental health center, community resource
center, clergy and various support groups made up of people
working on similar problems. Help is available.
Remember your Employee Assistance Program
is:
• Confidential: All information is kept strictly
between you and your counselor
• Informal: A simple phone call starts the
process and there’s no red tape.
For
assistance call Hidalgo Health Associates at:
800-448-4470
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